What Is the Function of a Maid of Honor? A Bridesmaid?

The maid of honor (or matron of honor if she is married) has many responsibilities -- all of them fun, and all of them an honor (hence the title). She traditionally hosts the bridal shower (although, if she is unable to do so, another bridesmaid or friend of the family may host), and may also organize the bachelorette party if there is one (this is strictly an optional event).

On the day of the wedding, the maid of honor will help the bride dress, and basically assist in any way necessary. One of the most important things the maid of honor does is to stand beside the bride during the ceremony, and to hold her bouquet when necessary. She is also the "keeper" of the bride's train throughout the day, from adjusting it when the bride arrives at the altar, to assisting with the bustle before the reception. The maid of honor may be asked to give a toast at the reception, which will take place after the best man has given his. In some instances, the bride may choose to have two maids or matrons of honor, in which case the two honor attendants divide the responsibilities.

Bridesmaids stand up for the bride during the ceremony and attend the prewedding events. They also participate in the receiving line and assist the bride as requested at the reception.

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