The Question
You're engaged! Now it's time to pop the wedding party question. Once you narrow down who you want, you can simply ask them in person or over the phone (pass on the email this time). Another fun idea? Send a personal card that will get the message across and also act as a sweet memento. When you do talk to them, be upfront about the time and monetary commitments.
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