Let’s face it -- even the biggest clods usually catch on that the calendar requires a minimum number of romantic gestures, and no amount of whining that “Valentine’s Day was invented by the greeting-card industry!” is getting any of us off the hook. But there’s no better time to keep the home fires burning than during the stress and occasional chaos of wedding planning. Check out our favorite romantic gestures for couples to keep the love alive before the big day.
A Massage
For Her: The only pampering better than a massage is a massage received at a luxurious day spa that will make her friends jealous. A surprise gift certificate will make her swoon; throw in a couple of other body treatments, and she may even forgive you the gym membership she got for her last birthday.
For Him: Guys are easy – they’ll nix the day spa for a sensual, full-body massage by their significant others any day of the week. All that’s needed are candles, massage oil, and some slinky lingerie (for her to wear, not him), and the stage is set.
A Movie
For Her: Bringing home a DVD rental of a tear-jerking chick flick along with her favorite takeout is a loving sacrifice all men should make at least once.
For Him: Taking him to a theatre to catch the latest gory action flick and springing for anything he wants at the over-priced concession stand is a loving sacrifice all women should make at least once.
A Mini Break
For Her: Whisking her off on a pre-honeymoon getaway for the weekend will earn mucho points. Think somewhere beachy with lots of shopping.
For Him: Whisking him off somewhere sexy and exciting will reinforce the idea that marriage won’t put an end to wild fun. Think Vegas, baby, Vegas.
A “Just Because I Love You” Gift
For Her: Sending flowers to her office out of the blue will guarantee two things: a) ecstatic joy; b) the women in her office will exclaim over and over what a wonderful fiancé she has.
For Him: Presenting him with tickets to his favorite, upcoming sporting event with instructions to go with his buddies will make him completely thrilled, and earn points with his pals as well.
A Fancy Meal
For Her: Dinner at an amazing restaurant that she can dress up for will make her feel like she’s on a date again.
For Him: An elaborate breakfast in bed will make him feel waited upon and allow him the luxury of sleeping in.