As simple as it may seem to tell your future spouse you love them, writing your wedding vows is actually one of the most difficult aspects of wedding planning. Coming up with the perfect wedding vow wording is tough; but we have plenty of unique wedding vow ideas that will make your wedding ceremony, and your declaration of love, shine like no other.
Wedding poems, for instance, are very popular features of wedding vows, whether you're having a religious on non-religious ceremony. Are you worried your wedding vows won't sound natural? We have plenty of tricks and tips to help you draw motivation from your favorite poems and/or quotes, so you can feel at ease when you’re up at the altar.
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If you have decided to have a traditional Jewish ceremony, there are still several types of services that can happen. There are differences in vows between the Orthodox, Conservative and Reform branches of Judaism. In many cases, rabbis and synagogues use their own interpretations. In many Jewish weddings, the vows are recited as the groom puts the ring on the bride's finger, or during a double-ring ceremony.
The groom says, "Harey at mekuddeshet li B'taba'at zo k'dat Moshe V'israel." ("Behold, thou are consecrated unto me with this ring according to the law of Moses and of Israel." Transliterations may vary.) The groom then places the ring on the bride's finger.
If there is an exchange of rings, the bride says a slightly different vow, with changes made for gender, as she places the ring on the groom's finger.
In some Conservative Jewish wedding ceremonies, these vows from the Rabbinical Assembly Manual are used:
Rabbi (addressing the groom): "Do you _____, take _____ to be your lawful wedded wife, to love, to honor and to cherish?"
Groom says, "I do."
Rabbi (to the bride): "Do you, _____, take _____, to be your lawful wedded husband to love, to honor and to cherish?"
Bride says, "I do."
Rabbi, to the groom: "Do you, _____, put this ring upon the finger of your bride and say to her, 'Be thou consecrated to me, as my wife, by this ring, according to the Law of Moses and of Israel?"
Then the Rabbi asks the bride to repeat: "May this ring I receive from thee be a token of my having become thy wife according to the Law of Moses and of Israel."
In a double ring ceremony, the bride says this: "This ring is a symbol that thou art my husband in accordance with the Law of Moses and Israel."
The Rabbi in a Reformed Jewish wedding might say these question-and-answer vows: "O God, supremely blessed, supreme in might and glory, guide and bless this groom and bride.
Standing here in the presence of God, the Guardian of the home, ready to enter into the bond of wedlock, answer in the fear of God, and in the hearing of those assembled: "Do you, _____, of your own free will and consent take _____ to be your wife/husband and do you promise to love, honor and cherish her/him throughout life?"
Groom/bride say, "I do."
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