I'd like to wear a pink gown like Gwen Stefani. Will it look weird if I don't wear white?

Technically, no, you don't need to wear a white wedding dress. Before Queen Victoria's wedding in 1840, a bride simply wore her best dress, no matter the color. Then, the Queen set a trend that became tradition -- and a beautiful one at that. There's no rule of etiquette saying a bride must wear white; however, traditions carry a lot of weight, and breaking with them can sometimes draw people's focus away from the purpose of the day -- a wedding and marriage -- and fix it firmly on that one detail. An unusual color for a bridal gown could be upsetting to others, especially members of older generations. The potential upset to them may not be worth the thrill of a colorful dress. But the bottom line is this: You may certainly wear a pink-hued gown (or one of different color) if you truly want to. Choosing a colorful dress isn't wrong or hurtful; just consider the situation in its entirety before making your decision.

Peggy Post, our etiquette expert and internationally known spokesperson for the Emily Post Institute, answers your questions and provides helpful etiquette advice on everything from attire and invitations to toasting and receptions.