Q&A: Do We Have to Do the Garter and Bouquet Tosses?
You are not obligated to include even the most familiar wedding or reception traditions if you do not wish to include them (unless, of course, the house of worship where you are marrying, or the officiant performing your ceremony requires it). Many couples, particularly those in their 30s or older, find traditions like the garter toss too juvenile, and they can feel free to omit it.