Do We Have To Have An Open Bar?

There is no disputing that having an open bar at a wedding reception is an expensive undertaking. It may be the single most costly element of your wedding day. And some hosts are understandably eager to prevent the risk of unsafe driving by guests. For these reasons and so many more, there are no real requirements with regard to serving alcohol at a wedding reception.

Of course, depending on where the reception is being held, and the religious beliefs of the hosts, alcohol may be forbidden. If it is not, and you are concerned about your budget, you may wish to have a limited cocktail hour, and then serve only wine with the meal; or serve wine, beer and champagne only throughout the reception.

A gracious guest will always appreciate the hospitality, regardless of the range of offerings. The only bar arrangement that should be discouraged is any kind of cash bar. If you are inviting people to a party, they should not have to pay for their food or drink. It is better to limit the variety of beverages you offer than put guests in the position of paying for their drinks.